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Suggested further reading

Families

  • A stranger in the family: How to cope if your child is gay, Terry Sanderson, The Other Way Press.

  • Families and How to Survive Them, Robin Skinner and John Cleese, Vermilion London.


Body Psychotherapy

  • Deep Bodywork and Personal Development, Jack W Painter, Bodymind Books.

  • Embodied Relating, Nick Totton, Karnac.

  • Gut, Giulia Enders, Scribe.

  • Polyvagal Exercises for Safety & Connection, Deb Dana, Norton.

  • When Hurt Remains, Asaf Rolef Ben-Shahar & Rachel Shalit, Karnac Books.

  • Your Body Speaks Your Mind, Debbie Shapiro, Piatkus.


Communities of Colour and Themes of Privilege

  • Intercultural Therapy, J Kareem et al, Blackwell Science.

  • Internal Racism, MF Davids, A Downs, Pelgrave Macmillan.

  • Intersections of Privilege and Otherness in Counselling & Psychotherapy, Routledge.

  • Me and White Supremacy, Layla Saad, Quercus.

  • Padagogy of the Oppressed, Paolo Freire, Penguin Books.

  • Racism after ‘Race Relations’, Robert Miles. Routledge.

  • The Black Flamingo, Dean Atta, Hodder.

  • White Fragility, Robin Diangelo, Penguin.

  • Why I’m No Longer Talking To White people About Race, Reni Eddo-Lodge, Bloomsbury.


Personal Development

  • Born for Love, Mai Szalavitz et al, William Morrow.

  • Coming Home, John Bradshaw, Piatkus.

  • Counselling for Toads: A Psychological Adventure Robert de Board, Routledge.

  • Daring Greatly, Brene Brown, Gotham Books.

  • Dibs In Search of Self, Varginia M Axline, Penguin Books.

  • Grief Works, Julia Samuel, Penguin.

  • How to be and Adult, David Richo, Paulist Press.

  • In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, G Mate, Vintage Canada.

  • Love’s Executioner, Irvin D. Yalom, Penguin Books.

  • The Road Less Travelled, M. Scott Peck, Arrow Books.

  • Man’s Search for Meaning, Victore E Frankl, Rider.

  • The Attachment Theory Workbook, Annie Chen, Althea Press.

  • Say what you mean: a mindful approach to nonviolent communication, Oren J Sofer, Shambhala.

  • The Compassionate Mind Workbook, Chris Irons et al. Robinson.


Relationships and Sexuality

  • A Positive View of LGBTQ: Embracing Identity and Cultivating Well-Being, Ellen DB Riggle, Rowan and Littlefield.

  • Born Gay, The Psychobiology of Sex Orientation, Glenn Wilson and Qazi Rahman, Peter Own.

  • Commitment and Healing: Gay Men and the Need for Romantic Love, Richard Isay, John Wiley and Sons.

  • Compulsive Sexual Behaviours, Silva Neves, Routledge.

  • Enjoy Sex, Meg Jiohn Barker & Justin Hancock, Icon Books ltd.

  • God’s Other Children: A London. Memoir, Vernal W Scott.

  • Growth and Intimacy for Gay Men: A Workbook, Christopher J Alexander, The Harrington Park Press.

  • Intersectionality, Sexuality and Psychological Therapies, Roshan Das Nair Catherine Butler, Blackwell.

  • Lust, Men and Meth, David Fawcett, Healing Path Press.

  • Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel, Harper.

  • Our Responses to a Deadly Virus, Angela Molnos, Karnac Books.

  • Pink Therapy, Dominic Davies and Charles Neal, Open University Press.

  • Queer A Graphic History, Meg John Barker and Jules Scheele, Icon Books ltd.

  • Rewriting the Rules: An Integrative Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships, Meg Barker, Routledge.

  • Safe, Sane and Consensual: Cotemporary Perspectives on Sadomasochism, Darren Langbridge and Meg Barker, Palgrave Macmillan.

  • Sex, Sexuality and Therapeutic Practice, Catherine Butler et al, Routledge.

  • Sexuality: A Psychological Manifesto, Katherine Johnson, Polity.

  • Sexuality A Graphic Guide, Meg John Barker and Jules Scheele, Icon Books ltd.

  • Straight Jacket: How to be Gay and Happy, Matthew Todd, Bantam Press.

  • Tales of the City (series of books), Armistead Maupin, Black Swan.

  • The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures, Dossie Easton and Janet W Hardy, Celestial Arts.

  • The Heart of Desire, Stella Resnick, Wiley.

  • The Life and Times of Harvey Milk, Randy Shilts, St Martin’s Press.

  • The Stately Homo: A Celebration of the Life of Quentin Crisp, Paul Baily, Black Swan.

  • The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight World, Alan Downs PHD, Da Capo Life Long.

  • Treating Out of Control Sexual Behaviour, Douglas Braun-Harvey et al. Springer.


Transgender, Non-Binary and Queer

  • Burgerz, Travis Alabanza, Hackney Showroom.

  • Gender Explorers, Our Stories of Growing Up Trans and Changing the World, Jessica Kingsley Publishers.

  • Gender Trauma, Alex Lantaffi, Jessica Kingsley Publishers.

  • How to Understand your Gender: A practical guide for exploring who you are, Alex Lantaffi and Meg John Barker, Jessica Kingsley Publishers.

  • Life is not Binary, Alex Lantaffi and Meg John Barker, Jessica Kingsley Publishers.

  • My Gender Workbook, Kate Bornstein, Routledge.

  • Non-Binary Lives: An Anthology of Intersecting Identities, Jos Twist, Ben Vincent, Meg John Barker and Kat Gutpa, Jessica Kingsley Publishers.

  • Queer Sex: A Trans and Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy, Pleasure and Relationships, Juno Roche, JKP.

  • The Queer Art of Failure, Judith Halmberstam, Duke.

  • The Transgender Issue: An Argument for Justice, Shon Faye, Penguin Random House.

  • To My Trans Sisters, Charlie Craggs, Jessica Kingsley Publishers.

  • Top to Bottom, Finlay Games, Jessica Kingsley Publishers.

  • Transgender Health: A Practitioners Guide to Binary and Non-Binary Trans Patient Care, Ben Vincent, JKP.

  • Trans Power, Juno Roche, Jessica Kingsley Publishers.


Trauma

  • Beyond Individual & Collective Trauma, C Mucci, Karnac Books.

  • Healing Developmental Trauma, L Heller.

  • Shame and Jealousy The Hidden Turmoils, P Mollen, Karnac Books.

  • The Trauma Tool Kit, Banitt, SP, Quest Books. North Atlantic Books.

  • The Body Keeps the Score, Van Der Kolk, B, Penguin.

  • The Body Remembers, B Rothschild, WW Norton & Company.

  • The Politics of Trauma, Staci K Haines, North Atlantic Books.

  • Trauma Therapy and Clinical Practice, M Taylor, Open University Press.

  • Understanding Trauma: A Psychoanalytic Approach, Garland, C.

  • Walking the Tiger Healing Trauma, PA Levine, North Atlantic Books.


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